I had checked in at the Kelana Jaya Tabung Haji Complex on the night of Wednesday, 19th October, 2011 after getting a call from Tabung Haji HQ at KL that I was listed to be amongst this year’s TH Pilgrims for Haj 1432 Hijrah.
After going through the procedures and checking in my luggage and collecting my passport which I had earlier handed over to Tabung Haji for Haj Visa processing, I was ushered in to the TH Kelana Jaya Assembly Hall where other pilgrims were also assembled. Each of us already in our Ihram unstitched garments. We had earlier taken our Sunat Ihram Bath and conducted our Solat Sunat Ihram.
There was a festive atmosphere at the complex and earlier on, I had bid goodbye to my darling wife. I was the one who was a tad emotional realizing that it’s gonna be a month or more before I would be seeing her again and I had tears in my eyes.
My wife asked me to be strong and reminded me that I was going on my Haj. The 5th and final pillar of Islam. Her words of encouragement beefed me up and I fortified my mind that Insya Allah, I will be returning to her as a Muslim husband who had completed all my obligations to Allahu Ta’ala and will be much more better than I ever was as a husband and Da’ee.
This was a photo of myself taken before departing for KLIA.
This is the Saudi Arabian Airlines Boeing 747 jetliner that we were to board on our Haj flight to the Holy Lands.
A self portrait of myself in the Saudi Arabian Airlines Boeing 747 before the flight taking off to the King Abdul Aziz International Airport at Jeddah, Saudi Arabia.
The in flight monitor screen showing us arriving at the Arabian Peninsular. The plane used to belong to Japan Airlines. There were Japanese words popping up on screen.
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
Insya Allah, I will be performing my Hajj this year. I will be reporting at the Kelana Jaya Tabung Haji Complex on Wednesday, the 19th of October after Isya. The flight to Makkah leaves at 0130am early Thursday morning from KLIA.
I ask for all MBA members to forgive any wrongs that I may have done in my years of hosting this MBA and also to pray for my being able to perform my Hajj according to the tenets of our faith. Insya Allah.
I will pray for all MBA members to be able to perform your Hajj as well and for Allah to bless us all in our efforts here on Earth and Insya Allah reward us in the Akhirat as well.
Amin.
Wabillahi Taufik Wal Hidayah.
Wassalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
FED-UP
Aliya,
i am a follower of your blog. i am chinese muslim for 5 years, married with 3 children. in beginning i lived like good muslimah but now i begin to get fedup. i know it not right but i donno what to do oredi. my husband want me to be solehah wife and mother, but he doesnt teach me islam bcoz he busy with work and come back late. my husband good man but always busy. my 3 children are still small and need me to always care for them. i work in office and when i get home, i have no rest bcoz i have to care for the children pulak. i have no maid bcoz husband cannot pay. i look back and think my life before i become muslim better and more happy than now. of course i love my family but i cannot tahan everytime got problems. before i become muslim i am buddhist. i dont have many problems like now. now got money problem, children sick problem, husband not home problem, work problem. i very tired have to do all myself. i read that problem is test from allah to test i believe in allah or not. i know i am not very strong in islam. i look strong, people say i good muslimah bcoz i wear tudung, but i dont feel like a good muslimah. i tired of test from allah. i dont want anymore allah test. i oredi tired with so many problems, i donno what to do if i get new test from allah. i cannot talk to husband this problem bcoz he will scold me and tell me to zikir and pray more. how to pray and zikir more when i always tired and got new test? sometimes i feel like leaving and go back to old life bcoz old life no many problems. i stay bcoz i love my husband and children. please tell me what to do.i dont care if u put in your blog bcoz i want answers. i tired and dont want anymore test from allah. i dont want to murtad but i fedup with so many problems, non stop always got problems, no rest. i see other muslim not so difficult life compare to me. why must i be the one to get this tests and problems. how to ask allah not to give me any more test and problems? why other people dont get so many test from allah? why me, when i oredi cannot tahan anymore.
jamilah
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Assalamualaikum,
Ada siapa yang boleh bantu nasihat sister ini?
Saya ada hal lain, hanya sempat pos emel dia sekarang, untuk renungan semua.
Terima kasih, wassalam.
BY AZRIL MOHD AMIN
The following are brief answers prepared by Hj. Abdul Rahim Sinwan, Deputy President, Muslim Lawyers Association of Malaysia, in response to questions posed by the British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC) recently on the issue of conflicts between Shariah and Civil Courts. The BBC piece which quoted him appeared here.
I have made minor editing to the original text.
Conflicts between Shariah and Civil Courts
With reference to your queries and short notice, in deriving any perception of law especially with regards to Islam and Muslim in Malaysia, one must appreciate aspects of Federalism and relations with Malay rulers and states and in seeking solution within the framework of the Federal constitution. Having such backdrop will reduce or perhaps eradicate misconception and having slanted or biased deduction of Muslims, Islam and Malays. All of this must point to the relevance of Malaysia law and the legal system.
Q.1
Is the association concerned with the number of cases trying to challenge the conflicts between Shariah and civil courts?
The association advocates educating the public at large as one of the main thrust of our objectives. Currently the Legal position of Muslims and Islam under the Federal Constitution enjoys the limelight in present context in conflicts of Shariah and Civil courts.
Q.2
In child custody battles the non-Muslim parent say they should not subject themselves to the Shariah courts because it has no jurisdiction over them. What do you make of this argument?
The issue of jurisdiction of courts is a dicey issue when one approaches it without appreciating the backdrop mentioned earlier. Please note that the Shariah never stop non- muslims from seeking justice in Shariah court, in fact Shariah Court open its doors to non-muslim witnesses and litigants, cases of Nonya Tahir in Negeri Sembilan and Fatimah Teh in Pulau Pinang.
Non Muslims can submit to Shariah court jurisdiction, it is a fallacy that Shariah court is religious, the court is another system which can be alternative or in fact complement to the present civil system, the jurisdictional demarcation of the dual system is found under 121 1(1A) of the Federal Constitution.
The Law Reform Act (LRA) is modeled on the common law which historically a Christian Marriage and divorce law. In fact in Malaysia it took not less than 6 years for the law to be effectively invoked as there were resentment to its acceptance by the diverse religious group namely Buddhist, Hindus, Sikh and others because by accepting marriage under LRA it ran against their religion and customs.
Muslims are not subject to this law! The Non Muslim especially the non Christian for now has another alternative if they submit to the jurisdiction of the Shariah Court. The Shariah Court is invoking a system it does not force religion, would it be fair that the common law in Malaysia legal system invoke Christian religion to litigants and witnesses in present context.
Q.3
In conversion cases, why should the Muslim have to go to Shariah courts to seek permission as opposed to the civil courts? Is it realistic to say Shariah courts would grant this since the court is based on the Islamic faith?
Reference in respect of Conversion cases in Malaysia is a settled law as to which court the party must go as in the case ofLina Joy case. The apex court has decided, the very purpose that Lina Joy sought remedy at Civil court for an answer has been answered by the apex court, she chose certainty of forum to opt out of Islam has been clearly answered by the Apex court! Civil Court has no jurisdiction to define faith and decide Muslim faith of a person.
Whether one is a muslim or not is not within the jurisdiction of Civil court, the best forum is Shariah court because even Mufti, mullah, Imam or even Islamic institution namely JAKIM can do that!
Lina Joy has shied away the solution she initiated. Take note the Apex Court has decided.
Q.4
So far the civil courts have shied away from making a decision in these constitutional challenges. Do you see a resolution to these cases?
The Civil courts make decision based on issues challenging the constitutionality of matters pertaining to Islam and Muslims. It would be unfair when the court judged otherwise it would be construed to be biased! Litigants were given every opportunity to advance their contention and argument. The adversarial system in Malaysia follows the “stare decisis” where the higher court binds the lower court and the higher court sets precedents to development of law in Malaysia. There would not be certainty to law if the “sour grape syndrome” is advocated.
Q.5
There is a perception that Shariah courts will favour Muslims over non-muslims (in custody cases) and against Muslim converts. What do you think of this perception?
Such perception is a fallacy. It’s an old message forever new! Shariah Court welcome non muslim litigant in seek remedy in Shariah court, it would be an insult to muslims that Shariah Court does not know to dispense justice! Shariah court is as misunderstood as the religion Islam itself, a misnomer not to non- muslims but also to many muslims! Therefore one of the very purposes of our association is to educate the public at large.
It is indeed a sad day for Malaysia and in particular to the Malaysian humanitarian group to Somalia. Noramfaizul Mohd Noor a member of the media group went with a mission to record all activities of the humanitarian group in Somalia and died a hero. However this was destined to happen and the risks are obvious to everyone. A war journalist can never avoid risks and that includes death.
However some important factors need to be focused to ensure the safety of future mission members and to maintained a high level of alertness. Recollecting my experience while in the Balkan, upon our arrival a security brief was given to all mission members. We knew clearly about the risks we faced and everyone of us left everything to Almighty God. The dos and the don’ts were made clear to us before we went on our various assignments. But although much was said we have to accept that fate knows no one and can strike without notice and this can be painful to accept.
Also on mission like this, like it or not, all should wear the flak jacket and helmet as a precaution each time on assignment as danger lurks in every corner. Hopefully future missions to conflict areas anywhere in the globe should undergo a proper briefing before departure as well as upon arrival. Necessary equipments should also be supplied to each and every member of the group including communication.
Members should be physically fit as conditions, in particular, in conflict areas demands this. Probably some form of training is conducted here before departure to expose members to circumstances they might encounter at their destination.
Whatever the situation, what was done cannot be undone and what is more important here is that a lesson is learnt from this unfortunate incident. In a conflict area like Somalia, although the government is responsible for the safety of everyone, they cannot be totally blamed. One must clearly remember that the government faced limitations by years of conflict and the individuals concerned have to ensure his or her own security in a volatile zone like in Somalia.
We must also accept that this will not be the end and it will happen again because the risks are always there and everyone on a mission like this understands this very well.
In conflict areas the risks cannot be eradicated totally. So at this juncture there is no point crying over spilt milk but instead we should focus our efforts to improve standards and plan for future missions.
Noramfaizul Mohd Noor, may Allah SWT bless your soul and the family should remain strong in the face of such a calamity. It is hoped that whatever promises made to the family by the government is not mere lip service but will be a reality.
Noramfaizul Mohd Noor, may Allah bless your soul. Alfatihah.
Alhamdulillah! We are so grateful to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala for blessing our MBA member Cikgu Nur Aliya Yeoh with another son. This future mujahid is named Ihsan.
On behalf of the MBA, I wish Cikgu Aliya and Ihsan all the best in their future. Ikram now has a baby brother to keep him and his mom company.
Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Fitri Aliya! May you be well and happy with your beloved sons and hubby!
Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen!
Cikgu Aliya blogs at http://pukullima.blogspot.com/
Alhamdulillah! It is with the greatest pleasure that we welcome Sis Zabrina’s son Tariq into the realm of this earthly life.
We are grateful to Almighty Allah for enabling Sis Zabrina to deliver her future mujahid with ease and she herself be returned to us safe and sound.
On behalf of each and every MBA member, I take this opportunity to wish Sis Zabrina well and that may she and her son Tariq be blessed by Allahu Ta’ala with the best of this life and in the next, Insya Allah.
Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri Sis. Maaf Zahir Batin!
Sis Zabrina is a well established author and she blogs at http://wisdomthruwords.blogspot.com/
Mula-mula aku rasa malas nak pergi solat Jumaat hari ini. Aku mengantuk sangat sebab malam tadi aku kurang tidur. Pagi tadi pula seorang perempuan Indonesia datang mengemaskan rumah ku. Oleh itu aku terpaksa menunggunya selesai bekerja baharu aku dapat tidur untuk menggantikan tidur yang hilang malam tadi.
Akhirnya di saat-saat akhir aku pergi juga ke masjid kesukaan ku iaitu Masjid India Muslim, Ulu Temiang, Seremban. Minggu ini ialah giliran Imam Melayu yang memberi khutbah dalam bahasa Melayu juga.
Oleh kerana aku tiba lewat aku terpaksa duduk di belakang dan tidak di tempat biasa aku di tepi sebelah kanan masjid. Sedang Imam memberikan khutbah pertama aku terbau asap dan nampak pergerakan jemaah di tempat biasa aku duduk. Kemudian terdengar beberapa letupan dan jemaah yang sebelumnya duduk berdiri dan memandang ke siling masjid. Masjid berhawa dingin, tetapi kerana jumlah unitnya kurang kipas juga dipasang.
Aku nampak api di papan fuis masjid. Mula-mula kecil dan akhirnya bertambah besar. Imam yang sedang membaca khutbah memberhentikan bacaannya. Aku nampak beberapa orang jemaah meninggalkan masjid untuk pergi ke masjid lain, agaknya. Aku pun turut sama keluar dari masjid.
Mujurlah ada beberapa orang pergi ke tempat wuduk dan mengambil air dalam baldi. Ada yang menasihatkan supaya air tidak boleh digunakan. Di samping itu baru aku nampak seorang menjenjeng pemadam api dari luar masjid.
Apabila aku masuk semula api sudah dipadamkan dengan menjirus air. Pemadam api tidak digunakan. Kami pun meminta Imam meneruskan bacaam khutbahnya. Kali ini kami duduk mendengar khutbah dan seterusnya bersolat dalam keadaan panas.
Semasa solat saya terdengar kenderaan bomba datang, tetapi mereka tidak dapat memasuki masjid kerana di halang kenderaan para jemaah. Tetapi khidmat mereka tidak diperlukan.
Aku dapat tahu Presiden Kesatuan India Muslim Malaysia atau KIMMA ialah orang kuat masjid ini dan sekarang sudah dilantik menjadi Senator. Aku harap dia berbuat sesuatu untuk membaiki bekalan elektrik di masjid ini.
Antara yang saya pelajari dari pengalaman ini adalah seperti berikut:-
1. Sentiasa menyimpan pemadam api.
2. Jangan menggunakan terlalu banyak alat-alat elektrik di satu masa.
3. Jangan meletakkan papan suis dan papan fius terlalu dekat dengan siling.
Inilah gambar-gambar yang sempat saya ambil. Minta maaf mutu kurang baik kerana gambar-gambar diambil dari kamera telefon bimbit Nokia 6210 yang berumur lebih tiga tahun.
Api baru nak mula. Perhatikan juga alat pendingin hawa.
Api dah marak sedikit. Lepas ini dia marak lagi.
Api sudah dipadamkan. Nasib baik wayar di atas itu tidak sama terbakar.
Imam meneruskan khutbah tanpa pembesar suara.
Jemaah selepas solat Jumaat dalam keadaan panas.
Kenderaan bomba terpaksa diletak jauh dari masjid. Tempat letak kereta ada yang kosong kerana ada jemaah telah meninggalkan masjid untuk solat di masjid lain.
Seorang ahli bomba melihat dari luar masjid.
Ahli bomba di dalam masjid. Imam sedang membaca doa. Baldi itu digunakan untuk memadam api sebelumnya.
Sekian.
Assalamualaikum Saudara Firdaus,
Saudara Firdaus perlu faham akan ‘context’ ayat ayat saya bilamana saya berkata bahawa ianya satu perkara yang harus SEANDAINYA apa yang pihak Gereja Methodist Damansara Utama menjemput Muslim untuk bermuzakarah atau ke majlis jamuan makan malam ala ala 1Malaysia?
Hakikatnya majlis makan malam itu sebenarnya bertujuan memasukkan jarum jarum halus dakyah kefahaman Kristian mereka dengan menggunakan ‘approach’ dan taktik melembutkan hati dan jiwa nurani Melayu2 Muslim yang sedang mereka ‘tarbiyyah’ secara beransur untuk menerima ‘Ketuhanan Jesus Christ’ dengan cara menggunakan simbol simbol dan kebudayaan dan kelaziman Melayu di Malaysia ini.
Bagaimanakah cara untuk menawan hati orang orang Melayu? Sudah tentu ada cara dan kaedahnya.
Dengan memakai pakaian cara Melayu. Dengan menggunakan pemikat pemikat hati orang orang Melayu seperti 5 orang yang ternyata sudah murtad secara rohani mereka, menggunapakai pelekat yang mengisytiharkan diri mereka sudah mempunyai nama nama Kristian.
Lihatlah wajah wajah ‘Sophia’, ‘Kieffer’, ‘Mina’.
Wajah wajah itu menyerlahkan peribadi yang sudah tidak menampakkan ‘nur’ Islami.
Mungkin apa yang saya hujahkan ini tak tampak pada mata kasar sesetengah orang yang belum berkecimpung didalam dunia Dakwah al Islamiyyah.
Namun bagi diri Mamu dan rakan rakan seusaha, kami boleh rasa dan tahu yang mana masih ‘pure Muslim’ dan yang mana sudah ada ‘ciri ciri’ Kuffar.
Bagaimana? Ianya tertakluk kepada diri si pendakwah itu sendiri. Setiap pendakwah Muslim ada pencapaian tersendiri.
Alah bisa tegal biasa. Terkilas ikan di air, hamba dah tahu jantan betinanya. Perumpamaan orang orang Melayu.
Apakah dengan berkata sebegini, hamba mendabik dada dan menyombongkan diri, mengaku diri lebih ‘terer’ dari yang lain?
Tidak sama sekali! Cuma mahu menceritakan bahawa didalam usaha dakwah ni, ada pelbagai macam peringkat dan tahap tahap kefahaman yang setiap pendakwah mendapat nikmat dari Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala, bermuhasabah diri sendiri dan melalui pengalaman pengalaman hidup masing masing melalui episod episod tertentu melayani seribu satu macam perangai dan kerenah manusia.
Setiap insan ada cerita dan keadaannya sendiri. Tak sama dengan yang lain.
Mamu dapat melihat perubahan pada wajah wajah insan insan yang sudah berubah arah kerohanian ini.
Majlis makan malam itu ternyata ada unsur unsur tarbiyyah mereka yang disasarkan dengan kuiz yang direka sedemikian rupa, ingin menguji tahap kefahaman Iman dan Islam sasaran sasaran pastor terbabit?
Dari jawapan sipolan polan tertentu, maka pihak penganjur akan tahu yang mana mudah untuk dipengaruhi dan yang mana akan merupakan cabaran kepada pihak penganjur?
Sama juga dengan kami, para pendakwah Islam.
Jika para pelawat dan pelancung bukan Islam yang datang ke masjid kosong didalam jiwa masing masing dan tidak pernah mengambil tahu akan agama yang ia lahir ; kemudian ingin mengetahui akan apakah dia Islam, ia memudahkan diri para pendakwah untuk menerangkan kepadanya tentang hakikat Ad Deenul Islam.
Namun, biarpun ia seorang fanatik Kristian, Hindu, Buddhist, Sikh dan apa sahaja kefahaman ciptaan manusia, kami sebagai pendakwah sekiranya sudah tahu dan faham tentang asas kefahaman kefahaman terbabit, mudah sahaja mengajar dan menerangkan kepada sipolan sipolan itu tentang kecelaruan kefahaman mereka dan menunjukkan kebenaran didalam Islam.
Semua ini tertakluk juga kepada tahap intelek insan insan terbabit?
Samada kepala otak mereka itu mampu memahami akan apa yang sedang kami sampaikan?
Juga tertakluk kepada kebolehan si pendakwah Muslim sendiri?
Cara ia berdakwah?
Apakah berasaskan nas nas dalam Al Quran dan Hadis Sahih Rasulullah Sallalahu Alaihi Wassallam?
Gaya bahasanya?
Budi bahasanya?
Sopan santunnya?
Tahap kefahaman Islamnya?
Peribadinya?
Rupa parasnya?
Penampilannya?
Tahap kebersihan diri dan pakaiannya?
Keadaan sekeliling?
Suasana ketika itu?
Tersendiri atau dikerumuni orang?
Semua ini memainkan peranan akan keberkesanan sesi dakwah tersebut?
Sebab itu gereja terbabit berusaha mengujudkan suasana selesa @ ‘ambience’ untuk mempengaruhi ‘target target’ mereka malam itu.
Jika JAIS tak mengambil tindakan terjah pada malam itu, sudah tentu pihak gereja DUMC akan dapat mempengaruhi maarof maarof sintok berkenaan untuk murtad dari Ad Deenul Islam.
Saya tidak menyalahkan pihak DUMC seratus peratus didalam usaha dakyah mereka.
Itu dah memang kerja dan usaha mereka untuk ‘evangelize’ sasaran mereka dikalangan Islam.
Saya cuma ingin bertanya kepada mereka yang terbabit, sanggup hadir di majlis makan malam Kristian dimalam malam Ramadhan ‘ Apakah kalian sudah begitu keliru tentang yang mana satu ‘makhluk’ dengan yang mana satu Tuhan Sekelian Alam?
Sebodoh bodoh manusia, sudah tentu tahu membezakan diantara Tuhan yang Ahad dan Esa dengan tuhan tuhan ciptaan pemuka Kristian dengan menyembah ‘tuhan 3 dalam satu’?
Akai pi mana syeikh?
Nak kata zaman kita ni masih ketinggalan dari segi penyampaian maklumat dan ilmu pengetahun, kita ni hidup didalam Akhirul Zaman. Zaman Sains dan Teknologi.
Orang pribumi Papua New Guinea pun dah pandai guna komputer dan laptop. Takkan anda yang tinggal kat Malaysia yang serba membangun ni boleh tersasar tahap gaban, beb?
Tak reti nak cari ilmu tentang Agama Islam?
Hello! Belajar le menggunakan sistem carian maklumat sedia ada seperti Google dan sebagainya.
Anda cuma perlu taip ‘quran’ saja dan begitu banyak laman web yang menyediakan seluruh isi kandungan Al Quranul Karim akan terbentang didepan mata anda!
Salah satu darinya adalah www.quran.com. Anda tak faham tentang cara nak membaca ayat ayat suci Al Qur’an tersebut didalam Bahasa Arab?
Gunakan panduan sebutan yang ada didalam Rumi sambil berusahalah anda mencari guru Al Quran dan belajar lah tentang hakikat Islam!
Yang bengong sangat gi belajar tahyul dan khurafat Kristian tu kenapa?
Takkan sampai begitu sekali tahap kebuntuan fikiran anda?
Allahu Rabbi adalah Tuhan Sebenar Benar sekelian makhluk!
Tak payah nak memeningkan kepala dengan pergi menyembah benda ciptaan Allah itu sendiri.
Anda menyesal?
Alhamdulillah!
Beristighfar lah anda begini. Sila klik > Astaghfirullah - Ustaz Asri Ibrahim
Insya Allah, taubat anda akan diterima Allahu Ta’ala, Rabbul Alamin, Dzul Jalali Wal Ikram. Tuhan Maha Pencipta, Maha Berkuasa keatas Segala-galanya!
Mamu doakan anda semua selamat kembali ke Redha Ilahi.
Amin Ya Rabb, Ya Rahman, Ya Rahim.
Bersama samalah kita mengamalkan seperti apa yang ditinggalkan Allahyarham Ustaz Mohd Asri Ibrahim, salah seorang insan terpuji dan terbilang dunia Dakwah Al Islamiyyah Negara Malaysia kita:
Sila klik kat sini > Subhanallah - Ustaz Mohd Asri Ibrahim
Semoga dicucuri Rahmat Allahu Ta’ala keatas ruh salah seorang insan tercinta Tok Mamu ini.
Amin Ya Allah!
Selamat bertaubat, Selamat berpuasa, Selamat beramal.
Insya Allah!
Wabillahi Taufik Wal Hidayah.
Wassalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
Hamba Allah dan debu dunia,
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3 comments:
The Tea Drinker said…
orang Islam pun ramai dapat masalah camtu cuma rasanya kita dah biasa dengan konsep usaha dan berserah maka masalah itu tidak ganggu teruk sangat. macam saya pernah dengan masalah kewangan, campur lagi anak kerap sakit dan macam2 lagi masa tu. tp kita tau, kalau tak diuji macam mana nak tau kita betul2 beriman dan sabar? dan sekarang dia tau sejauh mana sayang dia kat suami dan anak.
panjang ni kalau nak nasihat pun. perlu face to face. jadi eloknya dia jumpa la ustazah mana2 untuk consultation.
[nurfarahsyakirah] said…
This is my letter for sister Jamilah.
http://therockinghijab.blogspot.com/2011/09/advice-from-revert-to-revert.html
Hariz Khair Ad-Deen said…
Stahu sy, Allah akn mnguji seseorg itu, hnya ssuai mngikut kmampuannya. Jika saudari diuji spt itu, dn rsa xmmpu. Pcayalah, sbnanye saudari mmpu! Cuma, tkdng, diri kita yg cba mnolak kmmpuan yg ad, dn mngatakn pd dri kita yg kita sdah tak mmpu… wpn hkikatnya, kita mmpu shj utk terus sabar dn btahan.
inshaAllah, ykinlah jua pdNya, slps ksushn ad kmudhn. (surah As-Syarh)
Stuju jga, dgn kta2 the tea drinker, mslh2 ni, bkn ekslusif dr Islam je. ini mslh2 yg tdk asing, mncul dlm khidupn, dn inshaAllah, bleh dislesaikn, mlalui usaha, prbincangn, dn doa kpd Allah.
wallahu’alam. apa2pn, sy nsihatkn, fikir jauh2 dlu, sblm buat apa2 kputusn. igt Allah, dlm apa2 jua situasi. cba bsangka baik pdNya. mudah2an, Allah mmpermudhkn urusan saudari. inshaAllah
mgkin saudari bleh jga tgk link2 ni, utk mngaut motivasi dn kkuatan sdikit sbyk.. biiznillah
http://onekuliah.blogspot.com/2011/04/dr-asri-suratan-kebetulan.html
http://www.iluvislam.com/inspirasi/motivasi/3018-aku-tidak-mampu.html